If there is any doubt about it, you are one of a kind, amazing and incredible. You have unique ideas to share and important things to say. Simply put: You are a wonderful addition to the world. However, nothing ever starts out as a polished gem. Even a diamond starts out as black, sooty piece of coal. Putting some work into becoming the best version of yourself can help you shine like the shining star you’re meant to be.

1. Be There

So much about life is just showing up. This could mean being there for a friend or family member during a difficult time or transition. It could also mean being involved in the community by serving as a mentor, volunteering or simply setting a good example. Showing stoicism in relationships is a good way to be a rock for those people that need it. Being a person who shows up is a person who cares deeply about others.

2. Learn Something New Every Day

Learning something new every day keeps you interesting, relatable, intelligent and a lifelong learner. You can learn anything from a new word in a new language to a easier way to complete a difficult task. Learning new things also pushes you out of your comfort zone and helps you to grow. Learning something new every day really adds up quickly over time. Making it a habit now can make a huge difference in your life.

3. The Future Test

When you encounter bumps in the road it is so easy to become discouraged. It doesn’t matter if it’s a personal or professional issue, it can all seem earth-shattering in the moment. And maybe it is, but all too often when you are in the moment, you lose perspective. If you slow down for a second and ask yourself, “Will this be important in 10 days? 10 weeks? 10 years?” Oftentimes you realize that what you’re spending so much time worrying about isn’t really worth it.

4. Morning Exercise

Simply changing the time of day you do your workout can really change the impact. Exercising in the morning can give you more energy during the day, and it can contribute to better overall health. Not to mention, that people who work out in the morning state that throughout the day they are more relaxed and focused.

5. Prioritize

It is so easy to get distracted as your day unfolds. New complications and distractions start presenting themselves at every turn. That’s why it is important to make a list at the very beginning of the day of the top three things you want to get done before the day’s end. Having a list helps you to focus on those tasks and not get distracted.

6. Talk to Your Family

A relationship with your family is important, but also, they have information and insight you will never find on Google or in a book on any shelf. They have known you your whole life, they know you better than anyone, they know your strengths and weakness and they can help guide you to your best self.

7. Drink your Fruits and Veggies

Have a green smoothie at breakfast every day. It’s good for you. It’s fast. It’s easy. And it is a great way to get most of your fruits and veggies for the day. Keep your veggies and fruits in the freezer for a better texture and to make them last longer.

8. Be Thankful

Instead of always wanting what you don’t have, try being thankful for all the people and things you do have. You will be surprised at how much that simple change in perspective will change your happiness level. Pick a time every day to choose five things, people or pets you are thankful for. You can write down things you are thankful for daily and place each one in a jar. When you are having a tough day, read through the papers for an instant mood boost.

9. Be Yourself

In the quest to become the best version of yourself, make sure you don’t become someone else. Stay true to your vision and unique voice. Other people are always going to have ideas of what you should be or what they want you to be. Don’t waste precious time and energy trying to become someone else’s idea of what the best version of you is. Remember this is your journey and your journey alone.